While I was hanging out with my friend, we chatted about our favourite things i.e. things that we love. I told my friend I have a long list of things that I love which I keep adding to. I found just talking about what I love made me feel good. It didn't matter whether we loved the same things or not, I still felt good.
One of the great things about being in relationships is spending time with my loves. Unfortunately, I can't always be with my human loves. Instead of pining over those loves, I focus on my other loves which keep me nourished. While I am busy loving, there is no feeling of lack or separation from love. And the more I love, the more I have to love. And when I'm feeling good, my body feels good too.
I reckon if people constantly focused on all the things they love, there would be very few relationship breakups, if any.
By the way, laughter is one of my favourite things. Here's a very funny poem that made me chuckle: My Least Favourite Things
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